Free Paris

I was walking around the mall yesterday when I saw a t-shirt with ‘Free Paris’
sprawled across it. I sincerely hope it’s not making many sales, but I am thinking of making my own shirt: ‘Throw away the key’ and I shall commence wearing it on the 5th of June when her sentence begins.
Last night watching the news it seems Lindsay Lohan has decided to follow in Hilton’s footsteps and get behind the wheel of a car under the influence. I’m thrilled at the prospect of being able to re-use my shirt.
As a health professional I’ve been trained in limiting judgements of people and I like to think that I’m a tolerant person, but I draw the line at people getting behind the wheel of the car under the influence of drugs - whether it be alcohol or something else. This is something I have a zero tolerance for.
Is it the latest Hollywood starlet fad to drive under the influence? It may seem like Paris is doing ‘tough’ time for a relatively ‘minor’ offence but the reality is this woman is a role model (albeit not a very good one) and she influences impressionable minds. I am appauled at the ad for which ever US beer she launched earlier this year (something blonde) that is cashing in on this, using something along the lines of ’send her to the biggest convict colony: australia’. No thanks! But this just goes to show how influential other people feel she is.

I hope that the recording artists and actors against drink driving are protesting over her reduced sentence - because the good work they do promoting an important message is shattered when people like Paris Hilton claim they are being treated ‘unfairly’ and fashion trends are supporting it.
Unfair is someone losing their life because some idiot gets behind the wheel of a car with their senses impaired.

I have no sympathy for Paris, nor for Lindsay…

generosity

I’ve been thinking a little about this lately - in particular the nature of those who volunteer and give. What makes people choose to volunteer themselves for something? Does there need
to be something in it for the individual other than the knowlegde and satisfaction that you might make a difference? What makes a person give to a charity, or an organisation, or even just to another person? Does there have to be sort of motivating factor, some sort of reward for the individual? Do they expect something in return?
I find I am constantly frustrated by people on a whole in our western society and the
amount of selfishness that exists. People who only do things because they are paid; people who
won’t do things because ‘they don’t have time’ - infact, I have come to hate that excuse and I openly rubbish people who use it yet can’t tell me what they do with their time…
What irritates me even more are those who only want to volunteer for something that is almost purely for personal gain.

It’s like people can’t do something for nothing these days. Sure our world runs on money, but when are people going to realise that real riches don’t come from wealth?

I think my problem is that I’ve always had a hard time saying no to people, it means I’ve been taken for a ride on several occassions ,which has led me to, at times, begrude those who constantly say no to me, those who are strong enough to say no and walk away without looking back, and those who continually put themselves first.

Are you a geneous individual? Why/Why not? What motivates you to do something for someone? Does being more selfless make you an easy target for those of more selfish natures?

Makeover Nation

I went to a great lecture today by a visiting American academic named Brenda R. Weber. The title of the lecture was ‘Makeover Nation: Constructing the Neo-Liberal ‘American’ Citizen’ and was about how makeover shows help foster neoliberal ideology of homogenised, privileged citizenship. Such that if you are willing to change to adapt the look and style of the celebretified heterosexual distinctly gendered white upper-middle-class, including in your symbolic world of house, car, possessions, then you will have access to the privileges of full democratic citizenship. The interesting part, I thought, was the idea that what the privileged look and feel demonstrated was that you were taking care of your self, taking the burden off the state and bearing your own responsibility as a citizen.

Brenda showed a clip from a British makeover show, What Not to Wear. It was so appalling it made me cry. A spectacled, greying chubby Indian woman of 35 years decided that she was missing out on things because she didn’t care about her appearance, so she was getting help from the two hosts, Trinny and Susannah, to learn to feel properly bad about her appearance. The hosts did some really manipulating and bullying things, such as interview her husband who said he wished she was more feminine, interview her boss who said he wished she looked better so it didn’t put clients off (she was an accountant) and then kept pulling up her shirt so the viewers could ogle her boobs in her tatty bra, despite her protests. They then kept telling her that her big boobs were her best feature. I think probably the saddest part was that this woman agreed to let this all happen to her and be aired on tv because she thought her life would be so much better if she were prettier. Actually, the saddest part may be that she’s right.

That’s why this all works and why one must continue to be an absolutely committed feminist. Because now, yes, women can get power, but it is all in the service of the capitalist, American-dominated free market globalised bloody exploitative, heteronormative obnoxious economy. It’s just so well done, how they get you. How many women are really going to say, yeah, I’d rather not get as far in my career, not be treated nicely in restaraunts, shops and bars, find it harder to meet friends and lovers, feel all the time like people are judging me negatively, get grief from my family, etc and not give a fuck about my appearance, rather than get the clothes, make-up, plastic surgery and hopefully better job and better life? And can you blame them. Why not have an easier time of it?

The real question, though, is does it work. I can’t wait to see what research comes out about all these people who go through the makeover shows as they feel 5, 10 years later. Did they maintain their new selves. Brenda talked about how genuinely better the women on the shows seemed to feel after their makeover. Like their old bodies, their ugliness, were standing in the way of them expressing their true identities. That’s so sad, because what that’s saying is their true identity is just like someone else’s. In any case, does that new self stay strong, does it get a better life than the old one? It’s absolutely imperative to know. Because if it doesn’t work it is a much less complex argument: don’t do it because it’s a con. That’s much better than saying, don’t do it because it fucks up the world (but your life will be a lot better…).

Also, I’d like to know how real these shows are. The bullying of Trinny and Susannah is obvious, but what about bullying behind the scenes? What kind of contracts do the participants sign? Can they refuse to have their shirts pulled up on tv? Are there participants who end up hating it or being rebellious and those shows don’t get aired? Can they ask for certain things not to be aired? Are they encouraged to say things they may not really mean? How real is it?

Tips for young writers, and so many questions.

Paul raises some excellent points about what employers look for in new recruits in the journalism/publishing arena. You need to be young, tech-savvy, self-taught and ambitious. (You still, of course, need to be able to write too.)

However, his statement “That’s why I tell students that the only clips I want to see are the ones they were paid for. Nothing tells me that a writer has value like that fact that someone “valued” his writing” reminds me of that catch-22 merry-go-round many students get stuck on. How do you get experience if no one will take a chance and give you that first experience? How do you get that first pay cheque for your writing, when you’ve never been paid for your writing before? Why should it be that payment is the only indication someone values your writing? How do you get an employer to notice you, if they aren’t reading your resumes and school newspaper clippings?

Have any of you young writers encountered this kind of attitude when applying for writing jobs?

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