problem solving

This evening I jotted down psychological things I have been thinking about for a while. Questions such as: “Is it okay to allow someone to make your life easier and do what you want or is that irresponsible, infantilising, unfair and wrong?”

It seems to me that novels and short stories answer questions such as this. But I don’t have any answers so how can I write novels or short stories?

Where do other people get these answers from?

Rachel