why I think that feminism is veering drastically off-course
There is a problem with modern feminism. This will come as no surprise to anyone, considering all I ever hear about feminism are the various problems associated with it. Whether people are debating the true meaning of the word “misogyny”, or whether or not feminists are humourless bitches, or whether or not we should shave our legs, or whether or not men can be feminists, basically all that is ever discussed about feminism are its perceived problems.
At some point in the last two decades, the focus of feminism has been drawn away from its true aims as a movement and into a prolonged identity politics debate that detracts largely from what I consider to be the point of it all.
The big questions used to be about tangible, practical things – should women have the right to vote, to the contraceptive pill, to equal pay? Now, the “big” questions are introspective, self-absorbed questions that result in nothing productive, like ‘do women even need feminism anymore’? Is Beyonce a ‘real’ feminist? Is Tony Abbott a feminist? What constitutes modern feminism? What is post-feminism?
Frankly, I don’t care who calls themselves a feminist, so long as important feminist work continues to occur. Lately, I feel as if something has gone wrong, that we’ve been driven drastically off course by all of this soul-seeking. Real issues continue to face women globally, but the issues that get the most airplay are those that have the least impact.
When feminism first became a recognised movement, it was a movement for equality that addressed obvious and entrenched discrepancies in the status of women as compared to men. Similarly to any equal rights movement the primary aims of feminism fell into two categories : firstly, causing deep ideological changes to the way in which the subjugated group were culturally perceived; and secondly, to then address the practical results of inequality to create a balanced and equal society.
The first aim is necessary for the second to be realised. It was (and is) important for women to be recognised as equal to men in terms of capability, capacity, skills, and intelligence, to then be able to reform the entrenched structures in society that create an imbalance in how each gender is valued. For example, until women were considered valuable and intelligent enough to make valid decisions, it was impossible for suffrage to be achieved.
This interplay between identity politics and real policy changes and reforms is inherent to the movement. However, at a certain point, the former has come to surpass the latter in importance, with dire consequences for gender equality. Editing this magazine, I am constantly surrounded by feminist “news”. Often this is enlightening and important, such as the recent furore over the status of women in India, but at other times it makes me want to pull my hair out in frustration. Regularly, I am asked for my opinion on such trivial topics as whether or not celebrity X should call herself a feminist, or whether or not feminists can wear make-up/wear short skirts/love fashion/like cooking/enjoy knitting, etc etc etc.
Undoubtedly, there will never be a consensus on any of these issues. Some people hate that Beyonce calls herself a feminist, others don’t. Some feminists abhor traditional femininity, others believe in personal choice. It is not the job of feminists to agree – there is not necessarily a “right” answer. However, it is imperative that we remain united on the real issues that have a tangible impact on women’s rights and freedoms.
These ideological arguments are a distraction from the actual issues facing women in contemporary society. In the time that we spent congratulating or lambasting the Prime Minister for her infamous “misogyny” speech last year, thousands of single parents were being shifted onto the Newstart allowance, cutting their benefits significantly and placing them at greater risk of poverty. This is a feminist issue. The majority of single parents are women who, as mothers, are already unable to participate fully in paid work due to the inherently patriarchal structure of most workforces.
This issue was bypassed by most, however, as we rushed to debate whether or not Tony Abbott is a misogynist, whether or not sexism exists in the Australian Parliament, whether or not the Australian public identifies with a feminist Prime Minister.
Other real issues facing women today stretch from limited child care options to the increasing gender pay gap, the limitations of the paid maternity leave scheme, reproductive rights, the fact that sanitary products remain unsubsidized – the list goes on.
Don’t get me wrong – identity politics matter. It matters how we perceive women in society, it matters how feminism is discussed and portrayed in our culture. But it does not matter more than the very real, practical issues that are going unnoticed by the majority.
Feminism is not about finding a consensus on everything – it is not about figuring out what a “feminist” really is, as if there’s one true answer to that question.
Feminism, at its core, is about equality for both genders. I wish that the focus could be brought back to that basic aim, and away from how short Beyonce’s crop top was on the cover of GQ.
I couldn’t agree with you more Zoya!
I used to not think of myself as a feminist, until I was challenged to critically look at the society in which we live. When sexism isn’t overtly obvious, it is easy to miss, or possibly ignore.
Take the Australian Parliment for example; only about a third of senators are women. It could be easy to say that it’s sexist not to have a 50/50 ratio of men and women, but maybe the problem is that the culture of women not being in positions of power has perpetrated so deeply in the female psyche that women don’t even see that as an option. A survey by DOLLY magazine listed the top 5 careers as chosen by readers as followed:
1. Photogragher
2. Actress
3. Musician
4. Journalist
5. Fashion Designer
Now, not to say that these careers are bad or anything, but the sure are hard to obtain. They rely mainly on luck and marketability rather being smart and working hard.
When Marissa Mayer, the CEO of Yahoo! said that she didn’t consider herself a feminist, I agreed with her sentiments. I guess I thought I didn’t need to be a feminist because I knew what was available to me, and that I could achieve it. My idols include people like Penny Wong and Christine Largarde; I know my worth and won’t let small-minded people get in my way. But then I looked around me, talked to my girlfriends and got an understanding of exactly how bad womens’ limitations on themselves are. Their goals in life? Well, I don’t want to sound like a pompous douchebag (though I probably will), but high school drop-out with 2 kids milking cows for a living doesn’t have the same ring to it as Prime Minister or CEO.
I think that feminism has lost it’s way as of late because the sexism that it’s against is no longer just external, it’s internal too. The problem with today’s feminism it that women (especially young women) don’t see the need it in anymore; they’re happy and comfortable with society as it is.
It takes something drastic and brutal (and newsworthy, mind you) like the gang-rape and murder of a young Indian woman for the country to begin to look at how women are treated; will it take something of the same measure for the issue of discrimination to be examined in Australia? Something has got to shock people into realising how much feminism (the main point of feminism, not just interpretations of it) is still needed, before it fades away into obscurity.
Phew, I’m all commented-out now.
I do agree with you to some extent – that different “factions” of feminism argue with each other about perhaps “minor” things (in comparison to e.g. women’s health around the world), and that they get in the way of bigger picture things (the parenting payment, as you mention, or the attacks on women’s health issues overseas). On the other hand, I think that these “minor”, small picture issues are important because they engage people with the cause – the “misogyny” speech got the whole country talking about sexism. I actually think it’s great that whether or not Katy Perry and Beyonce are feminists hits the news regularly, that to *not* be a feminist woman is now considered outside the norm, and that the mainstream media is highlighting feminist issues on a daily basis.
That said, you’re right – arguing about who is and isn’t feminist helps no one.